Titiek Puspa: ‘Don’t let money make you stupid or poison you’
The Jakarta Post | Tue, 07/29/2008 4:40 PM |
“Living legend” is a term that gets thrown around a
lot for performers who manage to stick around long enough to see a gushing
career tribute.
Titiek Puspa, the
singer-songwriter who started her career more than half a century ago (no less
than president Sukarno chose her stage name when she was starting out in the
1950s), has earned the honor (her recently published biography is titled ‘A
Legendary Diva’). The grande dame of Indonesian entertainment, who recently
moved to a swank
Childhood
ambition?
I wanted to be a kindergarten teacher, because there were
a lot of children around and I wanted to help out my parents. I passed the test
and had some classes, and the children were always laughing and happy. But I
had been taking part in singing contests for a long time, and winning them, and
I got to thinking it would be better to entertain more people than just a
classroom.
What and who
make you laugh?
Lots of things, especially people who talk all over
the place in a crazy way. But I laugh easily, and am touched easily. There are
lots of clever comedians today. My favorite, though, was Bing Slamet, because
he was a great singer, good at everything he did, and was a very good person.
What makes you
sad?
Why do people have to talk bad about others? Why don’t
we do good for others, do our best. Don’t ask for things, do what you must. I’m
70, nearly 71, and I’m still working, thank God.
Favorite food?
Fresh fruit and vegetables. I’m very careful about
what I eat. I can have a free day to eat other things, but it has to be in
moderation.
Happiest moment
in my life ...
When I had my first grandchild. It was like heaven.
Everything smelled great and was in bloom, and the world was shining bright. I
couldn’t sleep from being so happy and thinking about that baby.
And darkest ...
When my family is sick and suffering, like my older
sibling right now who is ill. And when this country has problems. I remember in
1998 when there was the looting and robberies and rapes, I was so distraught
that I was affected physically, I went lame for a time. It was that bad.
Favorite song?
There are so many, including the ones I wrote myself.
Songs are my medicine, my vitamins, they make my life better.
Does gossip get
to you?
I’ve been gossiped about since way back when. Let them
say what they want. I don’t get angry and I never come out and refute the
stuff. God sees what I do – it’s between me and Him. But I’m not what they say.
If you could go
back in time, what would you change?
I worked from when I was young and often only got to
see my family at night. When I had my own
family, I made sure to spend time with my children at home. We have the kind of
relationship that we can talk about anything together. But I wish that I could
have made my own parents happy when they were alive. They were gone by the time
I became a success.
What would you
do to change the world?
I want every person to have love, a smile and good
words for others. It would be a better world with everybody helping each other.
Don’t take away others’ rights and hurt
them. Remember there is karma.
Your hopes in
life in three words?
I want health, peace and welfare.
Dream dinner
guests, living or dead?
Too many! If I could, my mother and father, because
they taught me good lessons about life, I learned so much from them.
I always have
with me ...
Apart from money, makeup, my cell phone and a pen,
because I like to jot down things now and then.
Favorite place
in the world ...
My best trait
...
Which one (laughs)? I always try not to hurt people,
to make them happy.
And worst?
Forgetful. I see people, I know their faces but I
can’t remember their names.
What have you
learned from getting older?
I can say that in my 70s, I have great blessings. I
can still stand on my own two feet, I don’t have to ask for anything. I just
came back from
Key to success?
Keep healthy, so you can do the best job possible, be
committed and professional.
What does money
mean to you?
It fulfills a need, but it’s not everything. Don’t be
made stupid or be poisoned by money. Just get enough to live.
How do you want
to die?
From way back I’ve left it up to God. When I was
nearing 70, I wrote the song Terimakasih
Tuhan (Thank you God). I’m resigned to death, whenever it comes.
+Bruce Emond
Illustration by Staven Andersen







