Harry & Larry vs Bra Cup Size

Sun, 03/01/2009 11:22 AM  |  Lifestyle

Some women can be so insecure with their breast size, like two of my close friends who recently went under surgery for breast augmentation. Both of them boost more confidence and seem happier after their cup cakes are now upgraded to panatone.

Despite what they've done invites some adoration, cynical remarks and question mark whether they'll feel comfortable with that new extra baggage - particularly when they need to run, breast enlargement trigger many controversy, and opinions are still battling around the myth if *larger than life asset' can obtain more security when it comes to social context. In our modern world where women emancipation already take its toll to the next level more than their solely physical appearance, does size still matter?

We heard the clich* on why women consider having breast enlargement is because they think men fancy bigger breast better. This idiom somehow twist women's assumption that big breast is considered *sexy' in the proverbial *eye of the beholder'. Being a beauty is not enough just to have pretty face and brain anymore, she must possess sex appeal as well. But if women can scrap what men prefer on how they should look, would they still think big breast is a potential asset to create more attraction? When it comes to self esteem, does appearance now take over women's intellectualism?

I throw this question to some of my gal friends whom often whining to have bigger boobs, and their respond is most likely, "It's like most men who desire to own bigger Willie. Size is a symbol, and bigger is definitely dazzling more power!"

Some of them rather replace the word *power' with *confidence' or *selling point', and reasoned the effort to fully visualize breast is what makes it seems sexier than just looking at and defining the true meaning of a beautiful face which is often considered as *relative' and always on display. Women think indirect visual or imagination on them makes them more desirable. It's such a benefit for them to be able to flaunt that kind of sexual image in softer form for daily view.

And big boobs always embellish media pages like decorative garnish on cocktails too -especially on many Hollywood actresses that influenced women all over the world to have their breast as perky as Pamela, Victoria, Carmen, and many others. But I wonder why on the other hand male celebrities hardly exhibit their Johnson in public except for Matthew McConaughey? Is it because men in general are actually more the show-off type in the fields of muscles strength, power, and ego, but totally shy when it comes in portraying what's dangling between their legs?

I finally came to an assumption, perhaps women want to appear more voluptuous at some part of their body just because physically they want to balance the same level in size with men's *big' mentality? How selfish the opposite sex rules can be, to manipulate the way women think on the size of their breast while hardly they make big fuss about the size of men's Harry.

Then I realized, the only people obsessed with Larry's size appear to be mostly men, who seem need to be convinced by their partner to tell them how enormous and ferocious looking it is. And it's true, many women said that just to satisfy their partner's ego despite they don't really care as long as it does the job. I guess it's women's nature to appreciate sexual organ and relations more with sensitivity and affection rather than a measuring tape.

So let's stop worrying about your breast size, girls! And realize it won't make you less of a woman and has nothing to do with your chance to win your dream guy's heart, as he will definitely look at you beyond your bra cup size. Let's play equality here as you obviously well aware when it comes to Mr. Jack Hammer, what you really want is one that fulfills your needs and is attached to a man who knows what to do with it! So you deserve the same wavelength of thinking from the man who supposed to be your destiny.

If this article still doesn't help your insecurity, then go find push-up bra at department stores near you.

-- Diaz

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