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Tips for raising an introverted child
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An introverted person is typically content with the internal realm of his or her mind and enjoys spending quality time alone instead of going out to socialize. (Shutterstock/-)
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arenting is not a duty that should be taken lightly, especially when it comes to raising children with special or distinct characters. In bringing up an introverted child, parents should fully comprehend what introversion actually is.
Introversion is a personality type where a certain individual is primarily concerned with his or her own thoughts, rather than with his or her surroundings. An introverted person is typically content with the internal realm of his or her mind and enjoys spending quality time alone instead of going out to socialize.
Therefore, introverted children tend to be shy, quiet, aloof, yet creative and calm. They are inclined to have a limited number of friends, often plan ahead prior to taking actions, favor living with an organized agenda and possess high ethical or moral standards.
(Read also: 6 things to know about introversion)
Having introverted children should not put parents in a difficult position -- these young minds just need to be nurtured and paid attention to, with slightly more compassion.
As compiled by tempo.co, here are seven tips for raising an introverted child:
- Parents should understand that there is nothing wrong with being a “shy kid” or an introvert. It is completely normal.
- Parents raising an introverted child must see that this personality trait is not by choice and does not need to be “fixed”. It is part of a child’s biology and mentality.
- Forcing a child to “socialize more” or to push them to be more outgoing can negatively impact their psyche. Avoid doing this because it can make them feel like they are not normal.
(Read also: Five false assumptions regarding introverts)
- Prior to leaving for a social event or hosting a large gathering at home, the child must be well-informed about it so that they can ready themselves mentally. Introverts need extra time to soak up social situations.
- Give the child a break from participating in social gatherings when they feel like they need it. Introverts can feel burned out from too much interaction.
- Notice and appreciate the child once he or she attempts to interact with people in a social situation, as it is quite difficult for them to do so.
- Parents should instill in their children the values of confidence and integrity. (mra/kes)
