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Nobody dies alone in Jakarta anymore

For the afterlife: Effigies are burnt as part of a burial procession by a Buddhist family of Chinese descent in San Diego Hills, West Karawang, on Feb

The Jakarta Post
Sun, February 28, 2016

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Nobody dies alone in Jakarta anymore For the afterlife: Effigies are burnt as part of a burial procession by a Buddhist family of Chinese descent in San Diego Hills, West Karawang, on Feb. 7.(JP/Viriya P. Singgih)" border="0" height="352" width="511">For the afterlife: Effigies are burnt as part of a burial procession by a Buddhist family of Chinese descent in San Diego Hills, West Karawang, on Feb. 7.(JP/Viriya P. Singgih)

The city’s graves are filling up, and more than a few people die every day. A team from The Jakarta Post recently visited cemeteries across Greater Jakarta, meeting mourners rich and poor, as well as organizations providing funeral services, to see how the capital and its surroundings meet the needs of the deceased and their grieving families. The following contributed to this report: Moses Parlindungan, Ivany A. Arbi, Viriya P. Singgih, Winny Tang, Winda A. Charmila, M. Reza Zafiruddin, Fachrul Sidiq, Radhitya Diva Putra and Sepsha D. Restiananingsih.

San Diego Hills Memorial Park in Karawang, West Java, was busy one day with two simultaneous funerals. In the Christian section, a family gathered under white tents to bury a husband and father.

Around 50 people sat on folding chairs beside the coffin of the 43-year-old, who had died, relatives said, of cancer. The ceremony proceeded with hymns, the reminiscences of loved ones and prayers for the deceased, before proceeding to the burial.

Down the hill in the Buddhist section, another group of white tents sheltered mourners dressed in white for the burial of mother, grandmother and great grandmother Kheng Tjin Kwai, 82.

Almost 40 people knelt before the altar set in front of the grave. A Buddhist monk led the ritual, while a grief counselor assisted mourners in following the prayers, the burning of joss paper effigies and other traditions.

Three mourners said Kheng’s descendants — who included both Buddhists and Christians — wanted to honor her ancient Chinese beliefs and traditions.

A day before, at the Tegal Alur II Cemetery in West Jakarta, which primarily serves Muslims, a man sat across from a flower kiosk, where mourners can buy petals and other burial items.

Hajair, a gravedigger who digs resting places for the unidentified dead, said he had just finished preparing a final resting place for his cousin, Titin Sumarni, 41, a teacher.

Titin’s mother, Rokyah, said her daughter had, shortly before dying, fulfilled the teaching requirements for a Bachelor’s degree.

“We never thought that God would call her so soon,” she said.

Nobody in the family, including Titin’s husband, Erpin, was prepared to face the challenges of burying someone in Jakarta without assistance.

“As it turned out, our community chief assisted us by arranging for chairs and tents for guests at our home, and for the hearse to bring the body to the cemetery,” Erpin explained.

For Mother: Vianna, an accountant, visits the gravesite of her deceased mother, who died at 63 in 2013, at the Tegal Alur I cemetery. The Parks and Cemeteries Agency plans to revamp all city-owned cemeteries in Jakarta, including Tegal Alur I for Christians.(JP/Moses Parlindungan)For Mother: Vianna, an accountant, visits the gravesite of her deceased mother, who died at 63 in 2013, at the Tegal Alur I cemetery. The Parks and Cemeteries Agency plans to revamp all city-owned cemeteries in Jakarta, including Tegal Alur I for Christians.(JP/Moses Parlindungan)

Dying in Jakarta is a complicated process, even with the bureaucratic reforms introduced in the 2007 bylaw on cemeteries. Yet all of the above families found someone willing and able to assist them in their time of grief.

The difference in levels of service for the dead, as for the living, depends on social status, wealth, religion, land availability and access to information about regulations, services and costs.

Land scarcity presents a challenge to the Jakarta administration, as the capital’s already large population continues to grow, with 27,375 people dying annually.

The bureaucracy of death requires relatives of the deceased to present the following documents: death certificate from a medical facility, the deceased’s identity and family card, ID of the family member in charge of burial, a subdistrict reference letter to funeral authorities and proof of payment from Bank DKI. All of this is required just for a burial plot.

According to Tegal Alur Cemetery administrator H. Suaeb, funerals no longer entail illegal fees solicited at cemeteries, though people often give tips to the gravediggers and groundskeepers.

Religion and tradition further complicate the funeral process.

Kasman Sukandar, a grief consultant from Anugrah Jasa, said he had been providing advice to mourners since the 1990s.

“Even people of the same religion may practice different rituals, depending on what ethnic group or traditions they have inherited,” he said.

Jakarta Cathedral parish priest, Stefanus Bratakartana SJ, explained that some Catholics of Chinese descent might not adhere to church rituals. “If a Chinese family wants to cremate their relative, it is up to them,” he said.

Confucians, Buddhists and sometimes Protestants from various ethnicities may also opt for cremation. Only Muslims of all ethnic backgrounds refuse to cremate their dead, insisting on burial within 24 hours.

Pastor Ainul Nurul said that in the Protestant tradition, the focus was on how to comfort the grieving family. Prayer services “can be held at any time that is convenient for the family and friends”, she said.

Buddhists and Confucians generally hold processions before burial, which may mean the dead are not buried immediately.

In Hinduism, the rituals following cleansing and shrouding occur simultaneously with the preparation of the body for burial and possible later cremation.

Nevertheless, nobody dying in Jakarta needs to worry about having someone there to lay them to rest. If the government does not help you, the community will, and commercial services are always available.

Under the cemeteries bylaw, all burial costs are borne by the municipality. The only charges imposed are burial plot rents, ranging from nothing to Rp 100,000 for three years.

In Jakarta, each subdistrict has a One-stop Integrated Service Center, which assists with various permits — including access to burial plots.

Last rites: The burial ritual of a Buddhist family in San Diego Hills, West Karawang, Feb. 7.(JP/Viriya P. Singgih)

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span class="inline inline-center">For the afterlife: Effigies are burnt as part of a burial procession by a Buddhist family of Chinese descent in San Diego Hills, West Karawang, on Feb. 7.(JP/Viriya P. Singgih)

The city'€™s graves are filling up, and more than a few people die every day. A team from The Jakarta Post recently visited cemeteries across Greater Jakarta, meeting mourners rich and poor, as well as organizations providing funeral services, to see how the capital and its surroundings meet the needs of the deceased and their grieving families. The following contributed to this report: Moses Parlindungan, Ivany A. Arbi, Viriya P. Singgih, Winny Tang, Winda A. Charmila, M. Reza Zafiruddin, Fachrul Sidiq, Radhitya Diva Putra and Sepsha D. Restiananingsih.

San Diego Hills Memorial Park in Karawang, West Java, was busy one day with two simultaneous funerals. In the Christian section, a family gathered under white tents to bury a husband and father.

Around 50 people sat on folding chairs beside the coffin of the 43-year-old, who had died, relatives said, of cancer. The ceremony proceeded with hymns, the reminiscences of loved ones and prayers for the deceased, before proceeding to the burial.

Down the hill in the Buddhist section, another group of white tents sheltered mourners dressed in white for the burial of mother, grandmother and great grandmother Kheng Tjin Kwai, 82.

Almost 40 people knelt before the altar set in front of the grave. A Buddhist monk led the ritual, while a grief counselor assisted mourners in following the prayers, the burning of joss paper effigies and other traditions.

Three mourners said Kheng'€™s descendants '€” who included both Buddhists and Christians '€” wanted to honor her ancient Chinese beliefs and traditions.

A day before, at the Tegal Alur II Cemetery in West Jakarta, which primarily serves Muslims, a man sat across from a flower kiosk, where mourners can buy petals and other burial items.

Hajair, a gravedigger who digs resting places for the unidentified dead, said he had just finished preparing a final resting place for his cousin, Titin Sumarni, 41, a teacher.

Titin'€™s mother, Rokyah, said her daughter had, shortly before dying, fulfilled the teaching requirements for a Bachelor'€™s degree.

'€œWe never thought that God would call her so soon,'€ she said.

Nobody in the family, including Titin'€™s husband, Erpin, was prepared to face the challenges of burying someone in Jakarta without assistance.

'€œAs it turned out, our community chief assisted us by arranging for chairs and tents for guests at our home, and for the hearse to bring the body to the cemetery,'€ Erpin explained.

For Mother: Vianna, an accountant, visits the gravesite of her deceased mother, who died at 63 in 2013, at the Tegal Alur I cemetery. The Parks and Cemeteries Agency plans to revamp all city-owned cemeteries in Jakarta, including Tegal Alur I for Christians.(JP/Moses Parlindungan)
For Mother: Vianna, an accountant, visits the gravesite of her deceased mother, who died at 63 in 2013, at the Tegal Alur I cemetery. The Parks and Cemeteries Agency plans to revamp all city-owned cemeteries in Jakarta, including Tegal Alur I for Christians.(JP/Moses Parlindungan)


Dying in Jakarta is a complicated process, even with the bureaucratic reforms introduced in the 2007 bylaw on cemeteries. Yet all of the above families found someone willing and able to assist them in their time of grief.

The difference in levels of service for the dead, as for the living, depends on social status, wealth, religion, land availability and access to information about regulations, services and costs.

Land scarcity presents a challenge to the Jakarta administration, as the capital'€™s already large population continues to grow, with 27,375 people dying annually.

The bureaucracy of death requires relatives of the deceased to present the following documents: death certificate from a medical facility, the deceased'€™s identity and family card, ID of the family member in charge of burial, a subdistrict reference letter to funeral authorities and proof of payment from Bank DKI. All of this is required just for a burial plot.

According to Tegal Alur Cemetery administrator H. Suaeb, funerals no longer entail illegal fees solicited at cemeteries, though people often give tips to the gravediggers and groundskeepers.

Religion and tradition further complicate the funeral process.

Kasman Sukandar, a grief consultant from Anugrah Jasa, said he had been providing advice to mourners since the 1990s.

'€œEven people of the same religion may practice different rituals, depending on what ethnic group or traditions they have inherited,'€ he said.

Jakarta Cathedral parish priest, Stefanus Bratakartana SJ, explained that some Catholics of Chinese descent might not adhere to church rituals. '€œIf a Chinese family wants to cremate their relative, it is up to them,'€ he said.

Confucians, Buddhists and sometimes Protestants from various ethnicities may also opt for cremation. Only Muslims of all ethnic backgrounds refuse to cremate their dead, insisting on burial within 24 hours.

Pastor Ainul Nurul said that in the Protestant tradition, the focus was on how to comfort the grieving family. Prayer services '€œcan be held at any time that is convenient for the family and friends'€, she said.

Buddhists and Confucians generally hold processions before burial, which may mean the dead are not buried immediately.

In Hinduism, the rituals following cleansing and shrouding occur simultaneously with the preparation of the body for burial and possible later cremation.

Nevertheless, nobody dying in Jakarta needs to worry about having someone there to lay them to rest. If the government does not help you, the community will, and commercial services are always available.

Under the cemeteries bylaw, all burial costs are borne by the municipality. The only charges imposed are burial plot rents, ranging from nothing to Rp 100,000 for three years.

In Jakarta, each subdistrict has a One-stop Integrated Service Center, which assists with various permits '€” including access to burial plots.

Last rites: The burial ritual of a Buddhist family in San Diego Hills, West Karawang, Feb. 7.(JP/Viriya P. Singgih)
Last rites: The burial ritual of a Buddhist family in San Diego Hills, West Karawang, Feb. 7.(JP/Viriya P. Singgih)

When someone dies, his or her loved ones receive a death certificate to take to their community or neighborhood chiefs, who then gives them a referral letter for the one-stop center determining their payment status based on family income. If the deceased is unidentified or has no next of kin, he or she is buried in Tegal Alur Cemetery. For families of the deceased categorized as poor, burial plots are free.

 If the family is considered able to pay, the rental fee for a burial plot depends on their level of income. The one-stop center then provides a letter to Bank DKI, which calculates the rental cost and provides three receipts, one each for the family, the cemetery and the one-stop center. Once proof of payment has been established, the deceased can be buried.

What the government does not do, the community '€” religious organizations, foundations, freelance counselors, neighbors, etc. '€” can.

The Pesantren Islam Al-Azhar Foundation, through its funeral process unit founded in 1992, assists with transportation, cleansing and shrouding of the deceased for fees between Rp 1.5 million and Rp 3 million for non-members. For members, who pay a monthly fee of
Rp 5,000 each, all services are free.

Religious organizations also offer services '€” counseling, prayer recital, cleansing and cosmetic procedures, coffin procurement, hearses, grave-keeping and administrative assistance.

The business sector also provides funeral-related goods and services for anyone requiring them at costs ranging from affordable on a small budget to extremely expensive.

The Cilincing Crematorium provides coffins and cremations for as little as Rp 3.3 million, or less if the bereaved can provide proof of poverty.

For those with deeper pockets, Heaven Funeral Home and Crematorium in Gedong Panjang provides coffins, funeral service space, cremation and administrative service for total fees ranging from around Rp 40 million to Rp 103 million.

The Cikini Funeral Home provides preburial and precremation services, covering cleansing, embalming, make-up, coffins and funeral service space. Total fees can reach Rp 43 million.

Richer families can also take a luxurious route to laying their loved ones to rest.

Lestari Memorial Park in Karawang, West Java, offers burial plots ranging from Rp 58 million to Rp 10 billion, as well as cremation services ranging from cremation alone at Rp 5.5 million, to cremation and the scattering of ashes at Rp 8 million.

This cemetery complex also provides a columbarium for the storage of crematory urns or boxes.

San Diego Hills Memorial Park and Funeral Homes, meanwhile, offers burial plots ranging from Rp 26.7 million to Rp 10.1 billion. This 500-hectare funeral and burial complex in Karawang also provides chapels, Islamic prayer rooms, other funeral service spaces and a multipurpose building.

With such a range of facilities and services, it is no longer necessary to fear the age-old adage: '€œDon'€™t die in Jakarta.'€
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