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Bosnian sues Malaysian ex-girlfriend over claims of 'sperm exploitation'
A Bosnian, who is a Malaysian Permanent Resident holder, is suing his former girlfriend for abusing his sperm to have âbetter offspringâ from European stock
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Bosnian, who is a Malaysian Permanent Resident holder, is suing his former girlfriend for abusing his sperm to have 'better offspring' from European stock.
Ervin Ahbabovic, a 41-year-old commercial director of a private limited company, stated that he lived with the 29-year-old Malaysian woman some years ago and they had a baby boy born on 7 Feb 2010.
He and the woman later separated but she contacted him often to reconcile for the benefit of the baby, but Ahbabovic claimed that he was actually being treated like a 'tool' for the woman to have better children, thanks to his 'superior' sperm.
This, he claimed, was due to the perception that the European DNA is of an 'unparallel and astonishing quality' compared to the local kind.
In the statement of claim made available to the press on Tuesday, Ahbabovic said he had a relationship with the woman in hopes of getting married one day.
Ahbabovic, who had also been a business consultant for several companies since 1995, also claimed that the woman's sexual desire and dominance went beyond normal boundaries.
'She demanded to have sexual intercourse six times a day with each session lasting approximately one hour,' he stated, adding that she often threatened to commit suicide if her sexual desires were not fulfilled or if he left her for any reason.
Ahbabovic said that while he hoped their relationship would progress further, he did not realise that the woman did not share his feelings and in fact had a negative perception of their relationship.
He alleged that after the birth of their son, the woman often found faults with him which ended in quarrels.
This brought about 'a harsh and disharmonious atmosphere' in their daily life.
Ahbabovic claimed that the woman later became hostile, adding that she even stabbed his left forearm on September 3 last year.
He said he felt humiliated, subdued and suffered extreme stress when she not only chased him out of their home, but also prohibited him from seeing his son.
Ahbabovic is seeking relief of 600,000 ringgit (US$181,790) for the use of his sperm for the purpose of getting a child in the wrong manner, that the woman recognise him as the father in their son's birth certificate, costs and other reliefs deemed fit.
The suit was filed in the High Court Registry through Messrs The Law Chambers of Mohamad Fauzi last Friday.
Ahbabovic's counsel Nasir Yusof told the press that the case management had been fixed for October 1.
Nasir said he would serve the writ of summons to the woman within 14 days.
Ex-lovers' spat goes public
The couple involved in the 'sperm abuse' suit have taken their spat public, with each side firing salvos at each other to defend themselves.
The woman claims that Ahbabovic's claims that she had a child with him for his European genes are "completely baseless".
'This is certainly not true!' she said on Tuesday.
'I am a respectable person. I don't need to deal with this kind of gossip.'
She alleged that the 41-year-old was actually unemployed and not a commercial director of a private limited company in Malaysia as he claimed to be.
The woman said she had not been in touch with her ex-boyfriend for over a year and that the lawsuit was 'totally unexpected'.
In the statement of claim, Ahbabovic said he entered into a relationship with the woman in the hope that he would establish a 'God-blessed' union.
He also claimed that his former girlfriend had told him to 'go die on the road' and he 'was only a gigolo'.
The self-professed family man who declared that it was 'love at first sight' said he was 'heartbroken' after she supposedly used him to satisfy her sexual desires.
He added that she also prevented him from seeing their three-year-old son.
'She needed a beautiful boy and she got it,' he said, claiming that the woman changed her mind about marrying him after their son was born.
He added that he had reservations about starting a relationship with her but said she insisted on continuing with it.
After their relationship ended, he claimed he was 'thrown out of the house' with no car, clothes or money.
But even after his experience, Ahbabovic said it would be unfair to think that all Malaysian women had the same motive.
He advised those like himself to learn about the woman's culture and traditions and get their parents' consent before getting attached.
'By then, you will know whether it's about money, semen or something else. If it's that way, don't get married. It's better to be single,' he said.
Ahbabovic remains hopeful of a reconciliation.
