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Prenuptial agreement in Indonesia: Yay or Nay?
Should married couples maintain or divide their riches for better money management and a happier marriage? Experts and couples weigh in.
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Should couples separate their wealth before marriage? (Pexels/Megapixelstock)
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ndonesian actor Ari Wibowo's recent divorce prompted online discussions about prenuptial agreements in Indonesia. The legal proceedings between the actor, who made his name in the 1980s and 1990s, and his soon-to-be ex-wife have publicly included back-and-forths about the division of their wealth.
Financial "experts," accredited and self-ascribed, and Instagram influencers have been the most vocal in sharing their opinions, with many promoting the division of assets among married couples.
The discourse is challenging for many Indonesians, as the country's culture still prioritizes familiality and trust, especially within the institution of marriage. Prenuptial agreements, for many, suggest a severe lack of confidence going into a marriage.
"I was afraid that my partner and their family would be offended [if we brought up prenups]," said Lita, an entrepreneur who chose not to disclose her real name. "However, my family insisted on having separate wealth. Fortunately, I complied."
Lita said prenuptial agreements were still socially unacceptable in Indonesia. Negative comments claiming that she did not trust her then-husband surfaced long before she agreed that her wealth should be separated before her marriage nine years ago.
She adds, "Over time, divorce proceedings have always revolved around marital property."
The 37-year-old believes it is beneficial for married couples to separate their finances. Hence, individuals can survive financially during unfavorable circumstances, such as divorce, corruption, or bankruptcy.
