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Life lessons from solo travel

Many people love to travel solo. Whether you take a coach tour or plan something else, you can definitely learn a lot of lessons when traveling alone. 

Alice Methew (The Jakarta Post)
Jakarta
Thu, November 17, 2016

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Life lessons from solo travel Many people love to travel solo. (Shutterstock/File)

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ome people love to explore the natural wonders and cultures of the world when they travel. However, traveling doesn’t have to mean visiting far-off lands. You can travel just a few kilometers and realize how your expectations, behaviors and thinking patterns have changed. 

Many people love to travel solo. Whether you take a coach tour or plan something else, you can definitely learn a lot of lessons when traveling alone. 

Money is important

What if you want to take a Disneyland Paris tour by air? This isn’t possible if you don’t have a super-rich dad with loads of credit cards. Money is essential and it can make or break a travel experience. How luxurious or how rough the travel is will depend on the investment that is made. 

If you are solo traveler, monitor your useless expenses. The more you spend, the less time you will have for traveling, thereby resulting in fewer memories. 

(Read also: Indonesian millennial travelers prefer authenticity, new experiences: Study)

Patience

Many times, you can’t be happy if you haven’t experienced sadness. Moreover, this sadness may last longer compared to happy moments. During such times, patience is of utmost importance. 

You must have faith even when you come across big challenges. Some days, you might dance with joy, but on other days, you might become emotional. Learn to manage your emotions properly while you are traveling alone.

Fear becomes less scary

Life often gets very scary when you travel alone. Take great efforts to understand your environment as it will give you a very deep experience, no matter where you go. Sometimes things go wrong and you might land in a difficult situation, but fear will give you strength. Most importantly, you will realize that fear can’t pull you down if you chase scary turns. 

Often, people think traveling is done in order to run from reality, but this is so wrong. The rough roads of travel will often make you stronger.

You will feel lonely

Everyone is under the impression that traveling is about meeting people and exploring new places. But no, this too is wrong; the harsh reality is you will keep meeting many people, but not everyone will be of the same mindset as you.  

Sometimes, you will feel lonely, because there will not even be people who know your language. However, learning to live alone is another important lesson you will learn. 

Find happiness in small things

You will always find happiness in small packages; ensure you are making the best use of them. Soak up those beautiful sunsets or hide among mountains. Hit the beach and listen to the waves. This will give you many memories that will instantly bring a smile to your face. 

Appreciate everything you can, as it will help you a lot. 

(Read also: 11 essential tips for women traveling solo)

Which way to go?

Travelers are known as lost souls, carrying big bags of dusty clothes on their shoulders. You will constantly keep hearing from your parents that you are wasting money and time, but setting that aside, you need to believe in yourself and in your journey.

You will tend to feel lost when you travel from one city to another. Often, during such times, you will ask yourself whether to follow social pressure or go your own way.

 

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Alice Methew is a professional writer who has written for various sites. She also writes for gold-crest.com.

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