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Tips on attending an 'iftar' event for first-timers
For first-timers attending an iftar event, the general code of conduct can be quite tricky. Here are some tips you will need to consider before joining your friends in breaking the fast.
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The more serious iftar occasions usually involve an Islamic prayer recital before dinner. (Shutterstock/File)
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reaking the Ramadhan fast, or iftar, is a perfect time for annual gatherings or small reunions that bring together both Muslims and non-Muslims.
For first-timers attending such an event, the general code of conduct can be quite tricky. Here are some tips you will need to consider before joining your friends in breaking the fast.
Dress politely
This means no sleeveless, crop tops, off-shoulder tops, shorts or mini-skirt. The commonly accepted hem length is below the knees. Make sure your top covers your belly and backside as a display of skin is generally frowned upon during the occasion. And please, no cleavage!
Do: Bring a scarf with you to cover up any wardrobe mishaps.
Know what to expect
Know what type of iftar event you are attending, so you know what to expect. The more serious occasions usually involve an Islamic prayer recital before dinner. This also means that you will have to dress more politely.
Read also: Nyadran, a unique tradition of welcoming Ramadhan
Go early
Traffic is usually packed just before iftar as people are rushing to break their fast at home. Go early to avoid being stuck in traffic. Restaurants start to get crowded as early as 5 p.m.
Have some snacks beforehand
Iftar time varies day by day, but it usually comes a few minutes before or after 6 p.m. If the invitation says 4:30 p.m. or 5 p.m, have some snacks so you will not be hungry while waiting for iftar.
However, in a more casual gathering, people will understand if you wish to eat or drink something before iftar. It will not hurt to ask whether your companions are okay with this as they may expect you to indulge in small talk, which is a big part of Indonesian gatherings.
Tarawih prayers
Usually Muslims become more religious during Ramadhan, attending to the obligatory five prayers more diligently than usual. A big part of this is the tarawih prayer, which takes place around 7 p.m., after the iftar meal. Some of your friends may pray after eating, so you may have to wait before moving on the other activities. (kes)
